The Quick Read: A gift is treated as a new deposit, so the lender wants to see where it came from, that it does not have to be repaid, and that it now belongs to the borrower. Seasoning means time in the account. Documentation means a traceable source. Meeting one does not waive the other.
- Neither asset-based path publishes gifts as a stand-alone eligible asset. Treat any gift as a question to settle with the lender before the money moves.
- The usual route is for the gift to land in the borrower’s own regulated account, with a gift letter and donor-side statements that trace it.
- On the qualifier path, a recent gift sits inside a 60-day seasoning window. On the depletion path, gifts are not among the categories excused from seasoning.
- Gifts from anyone with a stake in the sale, or money that must be repaid, are the files that get turned away.
This applies to consumer asset-based mortgages on principal residences and second homes, with investment property available only on the depletion path. The terms are ceilings and floors, subject to underwriting, and each file is reviewed on its own facts. Lendmire is the broker. It arranges these loans through select lenders in its wholesale network and does not make the credit decision.
Key Terms Defined
Seasoning is the length of time money has sat in the borrower’s account, shown by statements.
Sourcing is the paper trail that shows where a deposit came from.
Gift letter is a signed statement from the donor giving the amount, the date, the relationship, and that no repayment is expected.
Qualifying assets are the balances the lender counts toward the loan after applying the credit percentage for each asset type.
Funds to close are the money that pays the down payment and closing costs on the day of settlement.
Large deposit is any single deposit big enough that the lender asks where it came from.
Which Path Does a Gift Fit?
A gift fits neither path as a published asset class. The two paths treat accounts differently, so the first job is knowing which path the file is on.
On the asset qualifier path, eligible assets after the credit percentages must equal or exceed the entire loan amount, and no employment or income is documented. Brokerage, certificate of deposit, money market and savings balances count at 100%. Retirement balances count at 90% under age 59½ and 100% after. Seasoning is 60 days, with two months of statements for each qualifying account.
On the asset depletion path, usable assets are divided by 60 months to create a qualifying income, which then runs through the debt-to-income test. Cash and certificates count at 100%, securities at 80%, private stock at 75%, retirement at 70%, and real-estate equity at 60%. Statements must be at least 120 days old at application, plus one statement within 45 days.
The lender decides how a gift is treated on either path. Across the wholesale network, practice is split. Some programs accept gifts toward funds to close only, some count a seasoned gift as an ordinary balance, and some bar gifts on certain files. Ask for the program’s gift policy before the donor sends anything. Rental-property loans are a separate business-purpose program with their own gift rules, so keep the two apart when you compare policies.
Gift vs. Qualifying Asset vs. Funds to Close
A gift can help pay for the transaction without becoming an asset the borrower is reviewed on. The difference matters more than most borrowers expect.
- Funds to close. The gift pays the down payment or closing costs. The lender needs the letter and the transfer trail, but the money is spent at settlement.
- Qualifying assets. The gift sits in an eligible account and is counted toward the loan or toward derived income. This is where seasoning applies, because the lender is counting the balance.
- Reserves. On the qualifier path, no reserves are required at or below 75% loan-to-value, and above that the lender sets them. On the depletion path, no reserve months are published. Whether a gift can serve as post-closing liquidity is the lender’s call.
A borrower who needs the gift only to close, and who is reviewed on separate seasoned balances, has the cleanest file. A borrower whose eligibility review depends on the gift has the hardest one.
What “Seasoned” Means, and What It Does Not Waive
Seasoning asks how long the money has been the borrower’s. Documentation asks where it came from. A balance can be old and still unexplained. A gift can be fully explained and still be new.
On the qualifier path, the program’s published seasoning is 60 days, shown by two months of statements. A gift deposited last week is inside that window. On the depletion path, the statements must be at least 120 days old plus one within 45 days. Sale-of-business, inheritance and legal-settlement funds are excused from that seasoning, but gifts are not on that list.
Many borrowers carry a habit from agency loans. On a conforming purchase, a gift letter and a transfer trail can stand in for seasoning. Fannie Mae’s selling guide sets those rules for its own loans and bars gifts on investment property, so none of it carries over to an asset-based file. The asset-based file stands on the lender’s own policy.
The assets are documented on both paths. “No income documentation” never means “no documentation.” The program asks for no traditional personal-income documentation, pay stubs or employment verification, and it still reads every statement.
When the Gift Lands: A Timeline Table
The date the gift arrives relative to the statement window decides what the lender asks for.
| Timing | What the lender will want | Risk |
|---|---|---|
| Before the statement window opens | Letter, donor trace, ordinary statements | Low |
| Inside the window, funds to close only | Letter and donor-side trace | Moderate |
| Inside the window, counted as assets | Letter, trace, and the lender’s seasoning decision | High |
| After application, before settlement | Letter, updated statements, explanation | Moderate to high |
The earlier the gift lands and settles, the more it looks like an ordinary balance. A gift that arrives mid-file forces new statements and a new review.
The Gift Documentation Package
A complete package has five parts. Assemble all of them before the file goes in.
1. Gift letter. It states the amount, the transfer date, the donor’s name, address, phone and relationship to the borrower, and that no repayment is expected. A mortgage-insurer training deck on acceptable gift funds lists the same contents as standard. Agency rules require the donor’s signature, and asset-based lenders ask for it too.
2. Donor-side statement. The donor’s account statement shows the funds were there and the outflow occurred.
3. Transfer proof. A wire confirmation, a copy of the check, or a deposit record shows the money moving.
4. Borrower-side statement. The borrower’s account shows the deposit, matching the amount and date in the letter.
5. Letter of explanation, if asked. Keep it plain: who gave it, why, and that it is not a loan.
The agency guide lists acceptable transfer evidence such as the donor’s check with the borrower’s deposit slip, or a settlement statement showing receipt of the donor’s check. A wire direct to the settlement agent is a common route for funds to close. Whether a direct wire works depends on how the lender counts the gift.
Donor-Side Paperwork
The donor’s bank produces most of the paper, and this is where files slow down. Ask the donor for three things up front: a statement that shows the balance before the transfer, one that shows it after, and the transfer confirmation. A donor who pulls from a retirement account, a business account or a trust adds more. The lender will want to know the account belongs to the donor and that the transfer was a withdrawal, not a loan against the account.
If the donor is a trust or estate, the gift letter should name it. If the donor’s funds are held abroad, expect foreign statements, wire proof, and translation. Foreign funds are not eligible on the depletion path, so a gift sitting in an overseas account is not usable until it has moved into a regulated account and the lender has reviewed the source.
Mixed Accounts and Splitting Funds
A gift that lands in an account holding the borrower’s own savings becomes hard to trace. The lender sees one balance with one large deposit. Keep the gift distinct where you can, and tie it to a letter that names the deposit.
If the file uses both own funds and gift funds, show each source separately. The lender cares about the borrower’s own contribution as much as the gift. Some programs set a minimum of the borrower’s own money, and that minimum is not published for the asset-based mortgage program. Ask for it.
On the depletion path, an account balance drives the qualifying income directly. Cash counts at 100%, so a gift in cash adds to the usable pool and removing it subtracts. Every dollar of balance moves the monthly figure by one-sixtieth. A gift that is held back, returned, or reclassified as a loan can drop a borrower below the program’s asset minimums, which are the lesser of $1,000,000 or 1.25 times the loan balance and never below $250,000 liquid when depletion is the only income source.
For reference, the illustration for the qualifier path is an $800,000 loan with $330,000 in brokerage accounts, $300,000 in a 401(k) at 90% and $200,000 in savings, which counts $800,000 of usable assets. If part of that savings balance were a recent gift, the lender would review whether it counted at all. The lender’s own calculation governs.
Other Large Deposits
Gifts are one of several deposit types, and each carries its own proof.
| Source | Typical proof |
|---|---|
| Gift | Letter, donor statement, transfer proof |
| Sale of property | Settlement statement |
| Sale of business | Sale agreement and proceeds record |
| Inheritance | Estate documents and distribution record |
| Legal settlement | Settlement agreement and payment record |
| Retirement withdrawal | Distribution statement |
Sale-of-business, inheritance and legal-settlement funds are excused from the depletion path’s statement seasoning. They still need sourcing. Gifts are not in that group.
Cryptocurrency, precious metals, collectibles, borrowed funds and cash on hand are not published as eligible on either path. The documented route is to convert them to a seasoned cash balance in a regulated account and let the lender review the source.
Where the Rule Breaks
- Disguised loans. Any repayment expectation turns a gift into debt. A gift letter does not change that if the facts say otherwise.
- Interested parties. A gift from a seller, an agent, or anyone paid on the deal is generally disallowed.
- Gift of equity. It is a different structure from a cash gift, and lenders treat it as a program-specific exception. Confirm it before you plan around it.
- Partner money. A partner contributing under a private side agreement is not a gift. The lender will read it as pledged or borrowed funds.
- Gifts of assets, not cash. A gifted stock position or coin holding has to be converted and seasoned before it counts as a cash balance.
- Returned gifts. If money moves back to the donor after closing, it was a loan.
- Large loans. Bigger files draw more review, and bigger loans can draw more appraisal work.
Mistakes That Stall Files
1. Sending the gift before confirming the lender accepts gifts at all.
2. Depositing the gift into an account not on the application.
3. Splitting the gift into many small transfers that look like structuring.
4. Skipping the donor-side statement.
5. Moving gift money between accounts right before the statement date.
6. Counting a gift toward the loan amount on the qualifier path without checking seasoning.
What to Do Before the Donor Sends Anything
1. Confirm the path: assets covering the loan outright, or assets converted to income.
2. Ask whether the program accepts gifts, and for what (funds to close, assets, or neither).
3. Confirm the donor is eligible and has no interest in the sale.
4. Get the gift letter drafted and signed.
5. Choose the receiving account, one that will appear on the application.
6. Collect the donor’s statements, the transfer proof and the borrower’s statement.
7. Keep the paper together for the file.
Tax treatment varies by donor and by gift size, so the donor should ask a qualified professional; Kiplinger’s gift tax explainer puts the annual per-recipient exclusion at $19,000.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can a gift count toward the assets I qualify on?
It depends on the lender. Neither path publishes gifts as an eligible asset class. A gift that has landed in your own regulated account, been documented, and gone through the lender’s review may be counted as a balance, but you should confirm that before relying on it.
Does a gift letter replace seasoning?
No. The letter shows the money is a gift. Seasoning shows time in the account. On the qualifier path the program’s published seasoning is 60 days with two months of statements, and on the depletion path gifts are not among the categories excused from seasoning.
Who can give me the money?
Most lenders want a relative, and the donor cannot have a stake in the sale. Seller, agent and broker gifts are generally refused. Ask the lender for its donor rules.
What if the donor wires the money straight to the settlement agent?
That can work for funds to close, and it is a common route. It does not put the money in your account, so it does not add to your qualifying balance.
Do I need to show the donor’s bank statements?
Yes, expect to. The donor-side statement shows the funds existed and left the account, which is half of the paper trail.
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References
1. Fannie Mae Selling Guide B3-4.3-04, Personal Gifts
2. Enact MI, Acceptable Use of Gift Funds (training presentation)
3. Kiplinger, Gift Tax Exclusion
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