The Quick Read: A private note is a contract between you and a relative that stays in place on whatever terms you both negotiated, while a DSCR refinance is a new investor loan that pays the relative off and replaces the family debt with a property-based mortgage. The two are not rivals so much as steps in a sequence. Keep the family note when the relative is flexible and the terms still work. Refinance when the note is maturing, the relative wants out, or you need a long-term structure.
- A DSCR refinance does not take over the family note. It is a new loan, and title pays the relative off.
- The new loan is reviewed primarily on property-level rental income covering the payment, subject to lender guidelines.
- Cash-out refinances top out around 75% LTV on standard rentals across most of the network.
- A family note is often interest-only, so the new payment can jump. Run the coverage ratio on the new payment, not the old one.
- Clean paperwork (signed note, recorded lien, payment history, payoff letter) is what keeps these files moving.
Who Each Option Is Really For
The honest answer is short. A private family note fits a landlord whose relative is happy to stay in the deal, whose terms are workable, and who values flexibility over structure. A DSCR refinance fits a landlord who needs the relative paid off, needs a long maturity, or wants the debt sized on the property’s rent instead of personal income.
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Many landlords end up using both. The family note gets the property bought or fixed. The DSCR loan later takes the relative out once the rent is documented and the file is clean. Lendmire’s wholesale network places DSCR investor loans across 41 markets, including Washington, D.C., so this payoff-and-replace pattern is routine on the broker side. The rest of this piece lays out where each path helps and where it hurts. For the wider program picture, see Lendmire’s complete DSCR loans guide.
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The DSCR column reflects typical guidelines from select lenders in Lendmire’s wholesale network. The private note column shows published industry norms, which vary because there is no standard practice for family loans.
| Factor | Private / Family Note | DSCR Refinance |
|---|---|---|
| Review basis | Whatever the relative agrees to | Rent vs. PITIA, plus credit |
| Documentation | Note, security instrument, ledger | Appraisal, lease, entity papers, payoff letter |
| Property types | Anything the parties agree on | Standard rentals; manufactured, log, barndo not offered |
| Entity vesting | Flexible, but names must match | Typically allowed, subject to program terms |
| Timeline | Set by the parties; often short-term | Set by file readiness |
| Reserves | None required by contract | Commonly about 6 months PITIA; more above $1.5M |
| Maturity | Often balloon or short term | Typically 30-year fixed; longer terms via select lenders |
| Flexibility | High, negotiable | Standardized program terms |
What the Family Note Really Is
A private note is two documents. The promissory note states what is owed, to whom, and on what terms. Title and any later lender will treat a note that is secured by a recorded lien very differently from one that is only a signed promise to pay.
The note and any personal guaranty are private documents and are not recorded. The mortgage or deed of trust is what shows up in title work. There is no single standard for private loans, which means family notes range from a clean attorney-drafted package to a text-message agreement. That range is the biggest variable in how smoothly a payoff goes.
Because the loan is for a rental, it generally sits in business-purpose territory. Under CFPB Regulation Z §1026.3, credit to acquire, improve, or maintain non-owner-occupied rental property is deemed business-purpose. That is one reason underwriting on these loans can be property-based. It is a general reading, not legal advice.
How a DSCR Refinance Pays Off a Family Note
The DSCR loan is a brand-new loan. It does not convert, assume, or inherit the family note. The old terms play no part in the new coverage math.
Here is the file flow:
1. Gather the family paperwork. The signed note, the recorded mortgage or deed of trust, the payment history, and a payoff letter showing the exact balance including accrued interest.
2. Classify the transaction. Payoff-only means no cash comes back. Cash-out means cash returns to you. The classification changes leverage and seasoning treatment, since cash-out tops out around 75% LTV on standard rentals, and seasoning of about 6 months is the common expectation across the network. Each figure is subject to lender guidelines and a complete review of property type, leverage, and credit.
3. Order the appraisal with a rent schedule. The single-family rent-schedule form is the 1007. Small income properties use the 1025.
4. Run coverage on the new payment. Rent is compared against principal, interest, taxes, insurance, and any association dues. A family note that was interest-only will usually produce a bigger payment once the new loan amortizes. Test the new number.
5. Collect entity papers if an LLC is borrowing. Entity vesting is typically allowed, subject to program terms, with a natural-person guarantor signing. An LLC does not usually make the loan non-recourse.
6. Title wires the payoff. The relative records a satisfaction or release, and any excess proceeds go to you.
Four things decide the outcome. Does rent cover the new payment? Does appraised value support the payoff inside the leverage limit? Will the relative cooperate on a payoff letter and release? Is the note’s paper trail clean enough for title to rely on? Two of those four are math, and the other two are paperwork and people.
What Underwriting Wants to See on a Related-Party Note
A reviewer has one question about a family loan: is this real debt? A signed note, a recorded lien, and a payment ledger answer it. A handshake loan with no recorded lien and no payment history is hard to treat as debt at all. A missed payment or a murky payoff figure can stall a file.
Also decide whether the family money was a loan or a gift or equity contribution. A family loan that was really a gift is a different file with a different payoff story.
Delayed financing usually does not fit here. A purchase funded by a family loan is not a cash purchase, so the exception for refinancing a cash purchase generally does not apply. That is a guideline-based view, and it means seasoning rules on cash-out will apply instead.
When the Private Note Is the Better Fit
Keep the family note when:
- The relative is comfortable staying in the deal and the maturity date is far off.
- The property is not yet stable, with rehab underway or a lease-up pending, so rent is not yet documented well enough for a DSCR file.
- The note is freely prepayable. DSCR loans commonly carry prepayment structures that lock a borrower in for a period. Check the note against that.
- You need terms no standardized program will offer, such as a payment holiday or a custom amortization.
- Your equity is thin. A DSCR refinance is capped by leverage, and a payoff that exceeds the cap leaves a gap you have to fill.
The cost is dependence. You rely on one person’s cooperation, health, finances, and patience. Notes often balloon or mature, and a due date approaching with no exit plan is where family loans turn painful.
When the DSCR Refinance Is the Better Fit
Refinance when:
- The note matures or balloons soon and you need a long-term replacement. Standard programs typically run 30-year fixed, and select lenders in the network offer extended terms and interest-only periods.
- The relative wants out or needs the money back.
- The property has stabilized rent, and you want the loan sized on that rent with no personal income documents. This suits self-employed investors and anyone with heavy existing debt.
- You are building a portfolio, because each property is sized on its own rent.
- You want to clear the relative’s lien from title so the property is cleanly yours.
Credit still matters. Guarantor credit is reviewed on every file. A 620 floor exists in parts of the network, most programs want around 660, and 700 or higher unlocks the strongest leverage tiers. Rent-based does not mean credit-blind.
One caution on coverage: clearing 1.00 is not the same as positive cash flow. The ratio compares rent to PITIA only. Repairs, vacancy, management, utilities, and capex sit outside it. Where coverage lands below 1.00, select lenders in the network offer paths with leverage and terms adjusted, which is a separate route from programs that start at 1.00.
Run the Scenarios (Ratios, Not Dollars)
Picture a landlord with a balloon coming due and a duplex that has seasoned with a stable lease. Rent clears the new amortizing payment at roughly 1.2x, and appraised value supports the payoff well inside the leverage cap. This is the clean case: a rate-and-term payoff, with title wiring the relative and recording the release.
Now say a landlord owes the relative a balance that sits near 80% of appraised value. A cash-out or payoff-classified file tops out around 75% on standard rentals, so there is a gap. The levers are a partial paydown before closing, a negotiated payoff with the relative, an extension of the family note, or bringing cash to close.
One more: the family note was interest-only and coverage looked comfortable against it. Against the new amortizing payment, the ratio falls toward 1.00. The fix may be a larger down payment equivalent in paydown, a longer-term structure through a select lender, or interest-only on the new loan where available. A larger paydown lowers the payment and can lift the ratio, but it does not erase leverage caps, credit floors, or reserve rules.
Another case: the tenant is a relative paying below-market rent. The appraisal’s market-rent schedule, not the lease, usually drives the number, so the lease and the schedule can disagree. Expect to document it plainly.
Keep, Extend, Refinance, Pay Cash, or Sell
| Path | Best when | Main risk |
|---|---|---|
| Keep the family note | Terms still work, relative is patient | Balloon date, one person’s circumstances |
| Extend or amend | Relative agrees, you need time | Repeated amendments can look informal |
| DSCR refinance | Rent covers new payment, equity supports payoff | Payment jump, prepayment structure |
| Pay with cash | You have liquidity | Ties up capital |
| Sell | Coverage and equity both fall short | Gives up the asset |
If the refinance falls short, the usual order is to extend the note, pay down principal, bring cash to close, negotiate a discounted payoff, and then sell. Start the DSCR file well before the maturity date and run an extension request in parallel as insurance.
Family-Specific Issues: Tax, Gift, and Relationship
These sit on the family side, not with the DSCR lender. Tax treatment varies; consult a qualified professional, ideally before the note is drafted. As one example of why, 26 U.S.C. §7872 addresses below-market loans, and a de minimis exception for small gift loans exists in the text. Whether it applies to a loan used to buy an income-producing property is a question for a CPA.
On title and entity: if the rental is in your personal name with an existing family lien, vesting into an LLC at the refinance closing is usually cleaner than deeding first, since deeding first can raise a due-on-sale question. Names on the note, title, insurance, appraisal, and lease should match the borrower.
Then there is the human part. Settle expectations with the relative before applying. Ask for the payoff letter and release early, agree on who signs what, and confirm no side agreements exist that title will not see.
Mistakes That Derail These Files
- Starting too close to the maturity date.
- Assuming the old interest-only payment is the coverage test.
- Skipping a title review and discovering an unrecorded or defective lien late.
- Ignoring prepayment terms on the new loan.
- Treating a passing DSCR as proof the property cash-flows.
- Relying on a handshake loan with no ledger.
Key Terms Defined
- Private note: A promissory note between private parties, usually secured by a mortgage or deed of trust.
- DSCR refinance: A new investor loan sized on rent compared to the monthly payment.
- Payoff-only: A refinance that retires the old debt and returns no cash to the borrower.
- Seasoning: The ownership or loan-age period a lender expects before allowing certain refinances.
- Balloon: A large lump-sum balance due at the end of a short loan term.
- Release of lien: The recorded document showing the old lender’s claim is cleared.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can a DSCR loan pay off a family note?
Yes, in most cases, as long as the note is documented and the numbers fit. The DSCR loan is a new loan whose proceeds pay the relative through title. Eligibility depends on rent coverage, leverage, credit, and the file’s paperwork, subject to lender guidelines.
What if my relative never recorded a mortgage?
It becomes harder. Without a recorded lien and a payment history, the debt is difficult to document, and a reviewer may question whether it was a loan at all. Cleaning up the paper trail, with an attorney’s help, before applying prevents most of the friction.
Does paying off a family note count as rate-and-term or cash-out?
It depends on how the lender classifies the file and whether cash returns to you. Payoff-only is treated differently from cash-out, and cash-out generally tops out around 75% LTV on standard rentals in the network, with seasoning of about 6 months commonly expected.
Can I just extend the family note instead?
Often, if the relative agrees. Extension buys time and avoids new closing costs, and it can run in parallel with a refinance as a backstop. The tradeoff is the same dependence on one person that created the problem.
Will the old interest-only payment count toward coverage?
No. Underwriting runs the ratio on the new payment, which is usually amortizing. Test that number before you commit.
If you are buying or refinancing a rental property and want to see how the numbers work, Lendmire can help you compare DSCR loan options based on the property income, credit profile, leverage, and investor goals.
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References
1. CFPB – Regulation Z §1026.3
2. IRC §7872 (Bloomberg Tax public text)
This article is part of Lendmire’s DSCR loan program — full qualification details, guidelines, and scenarios live on the program page.
Related reading: Condo vs Single-Family Rental for an Interest-Only DSCR Loan · How to Close on a Rental Purchase With a DSCR Loan · How to Refinance a Newly Bought Rental Into a DSCR Loan
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